the ex would have been a high school sweethearts deal. they were doing fine until they went to different colleges and the long distance thing got to be too much. margey ended up marrying a guy (the only guy she'd ever been with) for a brief time before moving back home a couple years ago. i was just hoping to see what would happen when they meet up again, i'd imagine she would be very confused that she had a husband since she didn't identify as bi when she knew her(and margey's still a bit confused as to where she stands there).
the friend is more open but she would have been her first friend when she moved to town at 15 who was really excited when she moved back 3 years ago post divorce.