newamsterdam older folk, bronx zoo workers, divers, people from maine, a long ago date set up that didn't work out because he looked too much like their dad from behind but they are still friends, drag queens (willam willam willam), old queens, bears, lgbt* folks of all sorts, idris elba for an old flame, and maybe robin wright, julianna margulies, sarah jessica parker or another 50ish female for a short lived high school girlfriend who is getting back in touch!