okay, i'm back! sorry that took so long. but this guy here has a semi-complicated back story. he married a woman 25 years his senior and now he's kind of trapped in a sexless marriage so he often cheats on her because she doesn't give him any and he hates being 'trapped' in the relationship with her. he does somewhat have feelings for her, but he doesn't want to leave her yet, so he just gets what he wants from others then comes home still. so i think with lainey the definite no strings thing would work with them. just basically 'throw a bag over his head, shut up and give me the d' and everyone's happy plan without anyone worrying about catching feelings is a good deal.