wands it is too early to be alive, sigh. bring me barbara hershey, kathy bates, jessica lange, sally field, glenn close, judi dench, viola davis, kristin scott thomas, etc. as other members of a "herbology club" that's really a social club of late-blooming middle-aged lesbians. especially if you bring one of them as the first woman she ever dated. i can help if you've never written an older character before!