I unfortunately will be working the day of her birthday but I have a dinner of sorts planned for her when I get home. During the weekend I am just going to follow her lead- whatever she wants she gets. She keeps suggesting the both of us wear a couples costume for the weekend and I told her I'd wear whatever she picks... she seemed thrilled. I hope she doesn't put me in tights.
I'm really bad at planning these things. :( And if I make too big of a deal over it she will probably kick me.