Rose/Pepper
People's opinions are important, but only you can know what's going to work best. Nothing wrong with trying both. One might give you more security, one more privacy, might depend on the day what you need.
I wanted to mention that I'm going to talk to Arva about introducing the possibility of marriage to the community. I feel strongly about it that I can make a good case, and will mention the gratitude for the rain and ask if it can be a regular thing, since I missed really getting to enjoy it. This information is for your ears only, but I trust you.