"Okay, I'll level with you I'm pretty pervy. I got a lot of stuff and I like being in control. Sometimes people see the rack and think oh yeah I can handle a strap-on but, Tony, sometimes they can't and it's just a disaster of a night after that. So I jsut wanted to be sure if we're taking this someplace." Lots of apologizing and chamomile tea afterward "But you know what I'm really into? Slow, tantric shit. Dudes I meet aren't really into the whole 'waiting to come' thing."