No one like said to you after that plot though, you were irritating during this please never do it again, right? And I know every single tag seems like it would be more irritating, but maybe that's just how you have to do until you get to the same point as you have with plotting? No one's going to be bothered, and I think we all technically have the same anxieties, we just deal with them differently. Literally, I have all those same issues, but I'm just like 'if this is some stupid shit, I'll assume someone will tell me', and usually they do if it is extra stupid. But it really has to be extra stupid before anyone else seems to notice. So maybe give yourself that room, too? My point is, if you feel you need reassurance with your tag, go ahead and ask for it. Maybe its like a crutch for now, but using the crutch to get better is a lot better than crawling around like a weirdo.