If Steve knew what Tony was thinking he would have argued that he very much would have liked a big ceremony. It was only for Tony's sake that he acted as though he didn't. Not that he would be devastated if they didn't, alone or in front of all their loved ones, he wanted to marry him, that was what was important. But Steve had wanted to share their news pretty much since they'd started dating.
He was a bit relieved when Tony hung up the phone, and nodded. "That's probably a good idea," he agreed. These things usually took a bit more planning than a quick phone call.