That kind of accusation barely registered anymore, and might have been a point of honour by Tony's fleeting smile. Or maybe that was just for getting a laugh out of her. She did, though, have some effect with the choice of 'more appropriate', releasing Tony's gentle squeeze of her shoulders for his hands to slide down and hover unobtrusively, if a little restlessly, over her biceps, and he rolled his eyes to the ceiling to pick his words instead of letting the first thought pop out unsupervised.
"Cap's going to look for Spider-man," he came up with, his tone and stance changing already though he still held her arms like he might switch gears any second. "But you might be more on his level," he suggested. Not the spider-thing, though that was already getting annoying and it hadn't even left Tony's head. He jerked his chin upwards, toward the skies.