Definitely not Conchobar - I want Ismene to have a really nice husband who loves and respects her. I'm trying to be nice to this one, at least on the husband front haha!
Ismene LOVES her dad. In the stories where they're together she seems to have a deep respect for him. Which makes sense, since Ismene is all Respect Authority And Men, and her father is both. She and Antigone were both distraught when he died
O that Death Might nip my breath, And let me share my aged father's fate. I cannot live a life thus desolate.
But also... maybe Ismene said that because she was now unmarried and fatherless so life would be tough.
But, anyway, she loves him even if she doesn't always understand him. And she definitely would be missing him. She's very family orientated and wants the best for them all.
And she loves Antigone, but the two of them had a big falling out and haven't seen each other in about a year. And even when they WERE still getting along, Alison and I think the two of them can't really be around each other too long. They love each other but they also kind of drive each other crazy.