"You see marriage like daydreams and romances. What is so different from what is happening here than if we were living in Korea? When your father and I would introduce you to potential husbands? Not everyone marries for love, there are many people who marry thinking they're in love but they mistake lust for love. So long as you can respect and develop a friendship with each other, intimacy and love comes later."
"Why shouldn't I not be concerned? You're married to a man you've never met!" May sighed. "When you have a daughter, you will understand why I am doing this."