Danny l Deucalion
Ethan's best interests are in mind, as are the interests of the other wolves in this town...that said, perhaps what would be best for him now, is to have a pack mate once again. Neither your or I can replace Aiden, but having someone there for him how truly cares would be invaluable.
I need to think on this for a while, but turning you would ensure that he need not be alone should anything happen to me. Plus it would let you bond with him on a level not possible for a human and wolf...now that is an interesting thought.
Oh the Nemeton is not to blame. It is simply a tool to be used. Someone else activated the magic and the fault lies completely with them.