She wrapped her arms tightly around her friend and cried quietly for a few moments. "Everything is such a mess," she replied, voice broken by the quiet sobs that wracked her body. "They fight, all the time. If you aren't one of theirs, then you're nothing. Unwelcomed. You can't have a voice with them! And he...he's going to lose himself in everything. And I can't stop him. I don't know what to do," she sobbed, a fresh wave of tears falling when she spoke about Roger. She was so afraid of losing him.