Derek | Malia | Stiles
That's not fair to say, you've only had bad experiences. It's not supposed to feel like how it felt with you.
The problem is that you keep on surrounding yourself with toxic women because that's what you're attracted to. It's a subconscious attraction, but it takes a conscious effort to change. You need to try to assess why you're interested in these emotionally distant and evil women, then work from there.