DARCY.
I understand. I... recently found out that I was a mother as well, and although I have no idea what it's like to raise little ones I can understand that you need security. That's the most important thing, I know.
There are a few options that we can try though, one of them being if you'd be willing to just be there for me to throw ideas at and I'd pay you to tell me whether or not I was insane or it would work, I'm alright with that. I've never done this before. If anyone back home heard that I was getting married they would think that I was lying through my teeth, I'm not good at this. Fashion designing, yes, weddings, no.
Another option is I can get you in touch with Pepper. We have parties here all the time, and now that the Avengers are starting to get recognized there are a lot more events and conferences that we have to meet. She has enough on her plate and to have an event planner on call would most likely be a godsend. And she'd pay you more than enough to make it between each event that we would need you to plan.
Or you can tell me to fuck off and I'd completely understand that too. Actually... you might want to get in touch with Tony instead of Pepper. He was close with a version of you back in Vegas where we're from, so if anyone could get you steady work doing something that you actually love, it's him. He talks big but he's totally the kind of guy who would want to throw a party just so you would have something to plan and get paid for.