I know some people have reacted pretty poorly to waking up here. Joe literally left bruises on my arm and had to be taken down by force and most people here have forgiven him for that.
We've talked, extensively, about some of the trauma that she's been through right before she came here, and I think that maybe this is like the first step in getting her to calm the fuck down. I really want to try cognitive behavioral stuff with her, and hopefully that will make some changes for the better.
But I don't think she's going to change if she is put on the defensive.
I'm not saying forgive her, I'm just saying that maybe you should just not talk to her instead of picking fights?