Okay, to be honest...my coming out was a DISASTER! I mean it! But...in the end, I'm stronger for it. Maybe that's why I don't feel that bad. I mean...trust me, the story of my coming out almost ruined me. It really, really hurt relationships I had. I got a divorce. I got kicked outta the Navy! It..sucked. But...in the end? It was liberating. It's not something I regret. Because if I regretted it..well, I might still be in the closet and miserable.
And Finn didn't scream it. He was talking, but he wasn't shouting it from the rooftops. I just don't think Finn had any idea this would happen. Yes, it's bad, but I REALLY don't think he thought it was going to go beyond himself and Santana.
I think you got it. Finn should've been discrete, but he's not good at that. He's Finn. Not that it's an excuse, but he's a moron. You're right, he'll learn. But we need to remember, high schoolers are all dumb. Teust me. All. Of them. Are dumb as rocks.