[Rayflo can tell there's a bit more to this than he knows, but this guy doesn't seem like the type to spill his life story just for the sake of it.]
Aren't you similar? I've spoken to you once before, but I can already tell you've made a judgment about me. You don't know me and I don't know you. But can you say you haven't been thinking something about me and who you think I am?
[The intense look that comes with his words is easily discarded as he waves a dismissive hand.]
You're judging everyone and you haven't met every human ever. No two people are the same. No culture mimics another exactly. First impressions are important, but they're just that. Impressions. Nothing concrete. If you want people to know who you are from the beginning, then be who you are. The one misjudging is no more guilty than the one who can't be true to themselves.