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I don't think vampires will have to give up anything either, beyond maybe a bit of possible arrogance. Vampires have continued to live and survive off of blood and tablets for a while now without the human's knowledge, outside of the hunters. If humans become aware of their existence, it will be a change...
But as long as both sides are willing to exercise control and patience I don't think anyone has to give up anything. If vampires have already been living in secret...then what do they really have to lose? You're right...if things aren't equal...then it can't really be considered peaceful co-existence. But if you sit around doing nothing...then nothing at all will change either.
There doesn't need to be any more people hurt. Not for the humans and hunters, and not for the vampires, either. It's too sad.