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[She smiles. It's good that Buffy has so many friends she can trust back home. Generally speaking, even those who she didn't normally get along with all banded together when something happened, like Akane being kidnapped or a new martial artist showing up that tried to take her fiance away. Even though they didn't always get along, she likes to think of Shampoo and Ukyou as her friends.]
It sounds like you aren't giving yourself enough credit. If you're the hand, I would think that in order to execute anything successfully, it's important that you have some of all of the above, right? And from what I can tell, you have a genuine spirit, a quick mind and lots of heart.