[And Josak's filling that glass again, but not as much. He's probably going to regret this in the morning--and Wolfram definitely will--but the kid needs it bad. He wants to keep the talking coming.]
I'm sure the Captain doesn't hate you. Despite what it can look like when he's got those "His Majesty" blinders on...you're one of the most important people to him.
But sometimes things don't always work out the way you want them to. Especially with relationships, because then people are involved and nothing is certain. Things get complicated, mixed up. Sometimes the person just doesn't love you back.
It's not a nice thing to know, but sometimes it's better to accept that then keep pushing and waiting for something you're not going to get. That kind of waiting will beat a person down.
[And yeah, he's downing the rest of his drink now and refilling to do so again. Should have known this wasn't going to be easy. But Josak likes to live a hard life.]