It's not good. But it's temporary. If you want to be with her -- you'll make it up to her. And she'll be upset, but she'll be happy in the long run. [tilting his head back] If you don't, then... she'll be upset, but it's something that has to be faced sometime if she's going to be happy.
...you just need to think about what you want to do. [now that you finally understand what she wants]