N-Not if you don't want to, I think. The point of courtship is to come to better understand your feelings and suitability for one another. In the end, i-it's what makes all three of you the happiest that works best.
[She's sorry she's not more helpful.] So maybe...they will not mind continuing to court you. [It's not as if they'll all be marrying each other is it?]
I'm sorry, I don't have much [any] experience in this type of situation.