[PM, you may be misunderstanding what Miranda means, but that is normal for Miranda.]
Yes, well, back home a girl can be courted by more than one suitor, and after a while she decides who her feelings are stronger towards. S-Sometimes it can be difficult, but it is hard to say how you feel about your relationship if you are i-in an intimate one with one of them and the other is m-merely a friendship. They are not the same.