[Whatever the outcome of this conversation, PM is sure that the advice is going to be at least phrased differently than how the humans offered it.]
I'm in love with my two best friends, and they love me back, but one refuses to be too close to me out of fear of ruining my relationship with the other. And the other one is distressed, possibly because I kissed both of them and I suppose it was almost like cheating, but I didn't mean for it to be cheating. Though he may also be upset because I am upset, though I am upset because I upset them both.