[voice | Private]
[Alma does understand. It reminds him of how he feels about Yu--that needy desperation to just be noticed and acknowledged. To be the most important in all ways.]
It doesn't work. Making them do anything doesn't work. They hate you and they reject you and even when it's for the best they never understand.
So you have to give in. You have to be different, change for them. You can't let them see the real you.
Maybe--Maybe if he comes back and sees that you've change his feelings toward you will change too. If you really want him, you have to be what he wants. If you're not what he wants, then it'll never happen.