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Maybe because you keep expecting them not to, if you expect that someone is going to let you down then it is only a matter of time before they eventually do. Everyone messes up but part of being friends is getting past the times that they mess up and focusing on the ones where the exceed what you expected.
But what are your standards for someone to be a friend?
((I'm so sorry, somehow this got lost with the way notifs group in gmail))