Ahhh, it's all definitely a turn-off, but you can't always get everything.
[...Sigh; dammit] --I won't be able to stand it if she kills someone else before help gets to her. If she doesn't get settled down soon, I'll have to do something. [fffff she's too nice. There's so much internal grumbling and griping over the words that grudgingly leave her mouth]