[ If the smell of blood is comforting, he'll be in for a treat tomorrow night. That's all in the future though and for now Spike's grateful for the gesture, knocking one out against the table and lighting it one-handed, never really letting go of Ianto. ]
I'd say that shows you're handling it pretty well. Not saying you're over it, but maybe ready to move on at least. [ Or he's just burying his emotions, but who is Spike to judge for that? It was horrifying. ] Forget about him. From the sound of it, he seems just about ready to forget about you too.