“He’d tell me you were wrong- Not directly. Those moments when I was discouraged- my age-mates were ignoring me, I was struggling with some academic lesson, or you’d reprimanded me for not listening, for sneaking out, or the thousand other reasons you had. It didn’t matter why I was upset. On the surface it sounded like encouragement; but really, what he was saying was you were wrong or an active block against me reaching my full potential. That you didn’t understand or accept that I could to more or should be given more understanding. He’d say similar things about the Temple as a whole, too.”