Re: Lucifer & Nina
"There's less..." Nina tried to consider when Grisha married. "Well white. White is worn by servants, not brides. And less frivolity." Not that Grisha didn't enjoy themselves or love their partner, but duty almost always came first, especially in the Second Army.
"And in Ravka, well...nobody has that kind of money unless they come from wedding and we're not usually invited to those." So many other differences, but for Nina those were the main ones.