On this snapedomthread, we were discussing how Harry would have turned out if he'd been raised by someone other than the Dursleys. I mentioned that Snape and Lupin might have made a good parenting team. Lupin would be kind and nurturing, and Snape more the disciplinarian, who wouldn't let things slide to avoid confrontation (as young Lupin did with the Marauders). And Lupin, as raisin_gal pointed out in the thread, would see to it that Snape wouldn't let Harry feel unloved.
She asked if I knew of any Snupin-Harry family fics, and I'm sure I've read a couple, but I can't recall titles or authors at the moment. I know I read one WIP on the snape_n_lupin Yahoo Group, but even if I could find the original post, it's not open to non-members. So I thought I'd ask if anyone in the community could help me with some good recs. Also, I'd be interested to hear other people's thoughts about how Snape and Lupin would go about parenting Harry, and how a Snupin-raised Harry would differ from canon.