Can't really say that I always lean one way or the other; depends on when you ask me. Sometimes it's pretty equal, often I sway a bit one way or the other, sometimes I lean more strongly one way or the other. (Though of course, I've always had the crap luck of often being very attracted to gay men and straight women, for all the good that does me.) However, before I found QaF, my taste for men in general had waned for awhile -- QaF resurrected that, and my libido in general, with a vengeance. Now I can't get enough of anybody! Especially B/J. ;)