"Well, just give it a bit of time so that you can say you thought it over thoroughly... and say you're doing it so that you will be happier in the long run. He may not be happy to lose you, but hopefully he can respect your reasons?" And if he thought about it for awhile and decided he didn't want to quit... well, while she wouldn't be happy in the least about it, she would respect the decision that made Neville the happiest.