Bitching? I mean, god, I know I can be a bitch, but you really take the cake, don't you?
Seriously, just back off. You didn't have an annoying, opposite gender double in your face when you were trying to save your brother, did you? No. I deserve my chance and I'm going to take it, without you ranting on and on about how I'm going to fail every time I try.
It's annoying and, more importantly, it's not fair.