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An the Island Girl ([info]alohaha) wrote in [info]gooseberry,
@ 2016-12-03 00:27:00

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Entry tags:! journal, ivy templeton, zz drop: anuhea alapai 2

After the last anon post, I realized that there's a lot I don't know about so many of you. Probably because we spend a lot of time hanging out but not a lot of time asking the little questions. There are so many of you that I don't know as well as I should. I'd love to get to know more of my classmates. So, if any of you want to get to know me and each other, come play with me!

So, it's two truths and a lie. Pretty easy right? To play, you just have to write three things, two of which are true and one that is a lie. The rest of us will try and guess which is a lie, and then we can learn more about each other!

I'll start:

I am double joined in all of my fingers, my wrists and my hips.
I've never traveled outside of Hawaii until coming to Gooseberry.
I have a secret fear of gnomes. Well, now it isn't so secret.

Go!

Sun-Mi, Ivy, Zoey

I know its been awkward. We don't have to talk about it, but I really want to just..talk to her.

I'd like our cabin to go back to normal.



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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-03 03:58 am UTC (link)
I think we all do but.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-03 04:05 am UTC (link)
I've given her a lot of space.

I know she's still mad.

But...

Maybe we can find ground to-move past?

I know it's my fault that the cabin is

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-03 04:12 am UTC (link)
You have. And it'd be great if things were... less tense in general.

I just don't know if talking to her is going to really help with that, is all.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-03 04:17 am UTC (link)
I know, I know.

It's just...not talking hasn't done anything I really hate the tension. I know I can't force her to forgive me and have us all hug it out.

Sorry, sorry, I shouldn't have brought it up.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-03 04:19 am UTC (link)
I think talking it out is a good idea, but only if she's ready to do that. If she's not, trying to get her to will just make everything worse.

No, it's alright. Pretending everything's normal has been stressing me out, actually.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-03 04:20 am UTC (link)
Hmm. How do I know when she would be ready, do you think?

I know. I'm sorry. I hate that I'm the reason people have been stressed.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-03 04:24 am UTC (link)
Wait for her to talk to you? [...] I don't know. It's awkward for everyone. I could

Everything is stressing me out, it's definitely not your fault.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-03 04:30 am UTC (link)
I guess so. I'm just worried if I just let it sit, she'll never realize that I really WANT to make it better? Maybe she needs me, or SOMEONE, to tell her that I feel bad, and I know she's upset and I want it to be better? That we ALL do?

I don't know if that's enough but it could be a start.

Oh no. What else has you stressed hoaloha?

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-03 05:01 am UTC (link)
You could write her a letter, maybe? Then she could choose whether or not to read it and it wouldn't be able to escalate into an argument like a face-to-face conversation could.

I'm thinking about scrapping my senior project.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-03 05:10 am UTC (link)
Hmm. Wow. That's actually a really good idea. Now I just need to write something without a whole lot of spilled ink about how awful I am, which is what I'm always tempted to say.

Wait, really? Why?

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-03 05:31 am UTC (link)
Yeah, I'd just be straightforward and concise. I hope it works out for the best!

Oh, you know. I think I was just wrong about my theory, so it's going to be hard to pull together a good conclusion to the paper. I'm sure they wouldn't mark me down any if I showed all my research and how I realized I was wrong, but it just doesn't feel good to me.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-03 01:19 pm UTC (link)
Would...would you mind looking it over and giving me feedback before I send it? You're really good at..grammar and stuff.

Oh, I could see how that would be hard. Um. If it makes you feel any better, I still haven't turned a proposal in and I don't really know what I'm doing.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-04 02:54 am UTC (link)
Yeah, of course. I'd be happy to do that.

Then you're in luck that I have to write a new one, because now we can do it together.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-05 05:08 pm UTC (link)
You're a lifesaver.

Ughhhhh I guess. I don't even know what I want to do really, it's awful.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]iviie, 2016-12-06 08:20 pm UTC
Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]alohaha, 2016-12-06 09:15 pm UTC
Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]iviie, 2016-12-06 09:17 pm UTC
Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]alohaha, 2016-12-06 09:21 pm UTC
Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]iviie, 2016-12-06 09:22 pm UTC
Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]alohaha, 2016-12-06 09:24 pm UTC
Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]iviie, 2016-12-06 09:25 pm UTC
Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An - [info]alohaha, 2016-12-06 09:27 pm UTC
Sun-mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]henshinyo
2016-12-04 09:40 am UTC (link)
Yes, yes, this would be very good.

I thought she may be moving forward when she went to the dance with Nate, but it seems like she has been even more unhappy since then, if that is possible?

But I hate to pry, so...

I guess one thing at a time?

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Sun-mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-05 05:09 pm UTC (link)
I feel awful. I don't want her to not be happy, so this is killing me. She's still someone I care about even if she doesn't want to be my friend now.

Yeah...

I think a letter is the right direction. At least see from there if she would meet and talk things out some.

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Sun-mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-06 08:22 pm UTC (link)
I thought that too. Maybe [...] one of us should talk to her too? Not about [...] all this, just you, check up. In general. I haven't as I should

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Sun-mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-06 09:14 pm UTC (link)
It definitely should be either you, Z or Sun-mi.

But you really should. I'm still worried about her.

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Sun-mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-06 09:16 pm UTC (link)
And it should probably just be one of us. I don't want her to feel like we're springing an intervention on her or anything... just know that we all care.

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Sun-mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-06 09:21 pm UTC (link)
Definitely. No one likes to feel ganged up on, even if thats not what we mean.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]valentinez
2016-12-03 08:45 pm UTC (link)
Definitely.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-04 12:54 am UTC (link)
It'll be nice to have a no-tension cabin again.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]valentinez
2016-12-04 01:29 am UTC (link)
End the year on a calmer note.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]alohaha
2016-12-05 05:10 pm UTC (link)
That's the goal at least.

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Sun-Mi/Ivy/Zoey/An
[info]iviie
2016-12-06 08:21 pm UTC (link)
Knock on wood, please.

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