"So, to you, it isn't about love either, then. It's just about making sure I can't run away scot-free? It's about a name? I don't give a fuck what anyone calls you, or if you correct them when they call you Mrs. Spinelli." What else was he supposed to say? It shouldn't have been this big of a deal. Lots of couples didn't get married.
"I live with you. I have children with you. Do you really think I'm afraid to commit to you? I'm pretty sure I already have."