Well, you're Aunt JR's was partying and drinking. Which is why I sent her to school.....now if it was just that she was out trick or treating or even having too much candy and staying up late then I wouldn't have minded. But, I'm trying to get her to stop partying too much. I'm not saying that, but if you are going to drink and think there won't be any consequences then it's a problem because there will be consequences. Your Aunt JR is 16, she shouldn't be out getting drunk anyway.