Remus inhaled sharply. That wasn't what he meant at all and it hurt that Harry thought so. "No, my boy," he answered softly, "I just meant, from my experience with Teddy, that...that we don't always know what to do or say. Teddy was a fully grown adult when I arrived. Did I mention that? I wanted to be with him every second, get to know everything, but I also wasn't sure if he was ready or if that is necessarily what he wanted. Or needed." He looked weary as he thought back on those early days in the village. "I knew he lived this whole amazing life surrounded by people who loved him, who raised him, and, really, at the end of the day, I was just some story he heard, a stranger really. It is scary, Harry. It may sounds trite, but I know your parents love you and want a relationship with you, but...maybe they aren't sure how they fit into your life yet. I know it is not exactly the same, but were you sure where you fit with your three at first?" He really hoped he didn't make anything worse with his speech. It was not his intention.