Twee 1. Define "love." Love is... When you find someone whose special brand of crazy compliments your own. Butterflies-in-the-tummy. The willingness to put yourself in potentially uncomfortable positions for someone else. 2. What is romantic to you? Small gestures of affection that are classic, subtle and thoughtful. A single red rose means more than five dozen. 3. Turn-ons: Strength, protectiveness, possessiveness, men of a mature age and demeanor, honesty, confidence and a sly sense of humor. 4. Turn-offs: People who try too hard or don't let things come naturally to them, lying, very ostentatious behavior. 5. Whom on the blogs do you find attractive? If you're male and over the age of thirty-eight (in appearance)... chances are, you. 6. A perfect date would be: Some independent production at a small theater, dinner with lost of really good conversation and maybe dessert back at someone else's place. But don't try to get past second base on the first date or you will be kicked... and possibly maced. 7. How would you go about telling a special person that you loved them? Just say it. If it feels right there should be no reason why you don't just come right out and say it. Damn the consequences. The worst that can happen is that someone knows you love them - and what's bad about that? 8. If someone wanted to get your attention, what would you advise they do? Uhm... Say hi? Seriously. Start a conversation.