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Tweak says, "u stole my cookie"

Romeo García-Davies (rgarciadavies) wrote in finnigans_rpg,
@ 2014-10-02 13:56:00

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I am Romeo Matías García-Davies. Some of you may know me from our time together at Hogwarts. Some may know me from my job cooking at Finnigan's. Some may not know me at all.

I am queer.

If I had to define my gender, I would call myself somewhere between gender fluid and gender neutral. I look like what society would categorize as "a boy", but I do not feel like one. Nor do I feel like a girl. I am floating somewhere comfortable in the middle, a metaphoric foot in the male camp because of my presentation, but the rest of my being gloriously free of the gender binary imposed upon us by society.

If I had to define my sexuality, I would call myself definitely pan...something. I don't see gender as a barrier to love or attraction. With that said I don't necessarily know if I am pansexual... perhaps I am simply panromantic and asexual.

So that is me.

I know there are other people out there who, like me, don't conform to the neat little boxes the world would like to put us in. Maybe you don't fit the gender binary. Maybe you aren't neatly heterosexual. I would like to start a group for all of us to gather, support each other, and talk about the particular issues we face. This is not your school-era Gay-Straight Alliance. This is a utopia. A Queer-topia, if you will. And it is coming soon, if there is enough interest.

(You can make your replies private to me if you are nervous/cautious/not out.)

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rgarciadavies
2014-10-02 03:29 am UTC (link)

It sounds like an excellent deal, my friend. Perhaps we will strike it lucky and find someone who would like to cook us the drinks?

If you are interested in learning to cook, I am also planning on holding cooking lessons at some point. More details as they become available!

I think there is a time and a place for allies. I absolutely appreciate that they support us and love us regardless of our differences. But then when I am talking about the way I was jumped when walking down a dark alley, or other issues that we face, I don't like being spoken over by allies who have never experienced the kind of oppression I have faced, or who have never been derided for who they are the way I have. Sometimes it's nice to just... get away from them and have our own conversations.

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