Skittles, perhaps. I was planning on providing refreshments. I thought little bite sized tacos and empanadas? But Skittles are good too - it's nice to have a range of flavors.
I am indeed. Cooking is not such a big deal when you have learned it all your life, as I have. I have been "cooking" in some way shape or form since I was three.
I am planning on making this group a "safe space". What that means is that cisgender, heterosexual people will be asked not to come. It is nice, of course, to have allies, but there are times when queer people simply need to be with each other, away from those that simply cannot understand the paths we walk.