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Tweak says, "i don't do kissing."

Theodore Nott (nottfinished) wrote in finnigans_rpg,
@ 2014-11-13 13:03:00

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delivery: ernie macmillan, delivery: theodore nott

Owl to Ernie

Owl to Ernie

Hey

I wondered if you'd like to go to Dean Thomas' art showing on art gala on Friday ~~with me~~ with me?

It's in Muggle Camden at 8pm.

I don't know if you'd like to?

How are you?

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erniedtmac
2014-11-15 11:12 pm UTC (link)

~~I might. Okay, I won't, but I won't be happy if they don't.~~ I don't think you'll have to worry about that.

I think it's just a sign that there's still a lot of prejudice around. It's getting better, that's why I said a few of the healers, not all of them. It just so happens at times that those few happen to be the ones in charge.

~~You worry about me?~~ I don't think I'll burn out anytime soon. I actually try to be good at taking care of myself with plenty of time to relax or go dancing or spending time with friends. They key, I find, is balance - the better my life is balanced between work and outside activities, the better I can handle the less than good times. But I promise, if I'm not doing well myself, I'll come to you. You're right, this is a two-way street.

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nottfinished
2014-11-15 11:23 pm UTC (link)

I wouldn't expect the company you keep to do so, but c'est le malaise du moment

I'm sorry that the narrow mindedness of the few is killing the expansive ideas of everyone else. I think you should pursue it independently, theoretically, maybe discuss it with a private medical facility if our Ministry are too xenophobic to hear out a good idea when presented with one.

Taking care of yourself should be important when you take care of others at work and slip into that same role when out of it too. I'm sorry though, I didn't mean to overstep. You're very generous with your time and yourself, your energy, it's difficult not to be concerned that your Healer's gaze isn't being turned inwards. Thank you - that you'd do that means a lot to me.

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erniedtmac
2014-11-16 12:45 am UTC (link)

I'm not sure what that means, but I hope it's good.

That's a great idea! I'll think about it for now, it's still rather fresh so it's probably best I sit on it before doing anything - best not to make major decisions when I'm feeling emotional about it all.

Don't apologize, I don't see it as overstepping. It's nice to have someone check up on me, actually, and care enough to make sure I'm doing all right.

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	nottfinished 2014-11-19 01:58 pm UTC (link)
	It means that I think I should be able to trust your friends That's true. But don't let it cool away entirely. Don't let it die the way they want it to Of course. Ernie, of course. I hope that you would tell me, and that you'll let me know if you need anything, anything that you'd want to give me, but I'll still check on you. I want you to be alright. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	erniedtmac 2014-11-20 03:18 am UTC (link)
	Even if you don't, I'll be there - you can trust me if noone else. You're right. I'll do what I can to keep it alive, if only because it has the potential to help so many. The only thing I need is your friendship, and to see you every now and then. And if some of those 'now and thens' happen to be a date, then that would just be a nice bonus. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	nottfinished 2014-11-20 05:55 pm UTC (link)
	~~I think I can.~~ Thank you It really does, at the very least it could maybe be published? You have my friendship. ~~And~~ And some of those now and then's can definitely be dates. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	erniedtmac 2014-11-23 04:01 pm UTC (link)
	I hadn't thought of being published, that's a great idea! I've always wanted to see my name in print, though I'd always hoped it would be in the Prophet for something related to Harry. Then I'm happy and quite content. And as for the show, should we go back to the Dip and Swish for a bite beforehand? Meet at around 6 maybe? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	nottfinished 2014-11-23 09:00 pm UTC (link)
	Not in the Prophet for something related to yourself? Oh That sounds like a plan to me. I'll see you at 6:00 (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	erniedtmac 2014-11-25 06:54 pm UTC (link)
	Well, I'm just a regular old healer right now, and the Prophet has been obsessed about Harry for years. Not that I wouldn't love to be published for my own merits. It's a date. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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