I need to get it all in writing, but I'm thinking she'll be stationed in San Diego.. I'm somewhat debating whether I'm going to have her be a civilian or military, actually... I love the military, but don't know much about how it works, and I'd hate to screw that one up.. Regardless of that, though, she would still be a nurse or at the very least in the medical field.
Anyhow.... After the accident which caused the loss of the baby, she would have taken some time away and headed to Boston, where she's originally from.. She would have wanted to be around friends and family, or something of that sort... Maybe I'd have her leave the military because of what happened... have it be too much to handle after the event?
Not quite sure she'd be so willing to let him know what happened, though. She would probably figure they already lost the baby, so there really is no reason to let him know there was ever one.. Maybe it could slip, or he hears from someone else.. and that's kinda where we start them?