Either journals or community is fine with me! 5 years works, too.
Hmm, I'm bad at coming up with PBs. I was thinking someone kinda curly-haired, but that's not a necessity. I kinda like Morena Baccarin: http://swansong.insanejournal.com/40679.html but I'm not sure, she might look too young? Although I don't mind if there's an age difference. I dunno, I'll have to think about other PBs, unless you have someone in mind!