Re: Neil D/Lin A INot even going to touch thatI'm going to start singing Backstreet Boys in like, two fucking seconds Daniel. Yeah. To be fair, she told me 'it wasn't like that' with him or something along those lines, if that makes you feel any better. Anyway, look, it's kind of one of those things you need to revisit - the 'define our relationship thing. I've been in my share of non-monogamous relationships or whatever, and like, you really have to talk about that shit or it doesn't work. At all. Because feeling insecure and jealous are human emotions. So like, do your gd thing, you know? But shit, don't wait until something actually happens to discuss it again. yk? F
Of course it's hard, bro. I know it's fucking hard. I'm not good at it either. But, like, that's part of the deal, yo. Tell her like you told me. Practice it beforehand if you have to. Record it. Write it. Just tell her. Trust me, it'll help. [...] No. Not at all.
Throw that fatalistic defeatism schtick out the window. It's no good if you don't fucking do anything about it. Otherwise, no one can say whether it's worthwhile or not until you do it. Someone tell me why I'm giving relationship advice when I can'