I don't know anymore. I thought Neil had done a wrong to Sam. I thought he was doing himself wrong. Now the general consensus seems to be that I was too lenient on Sam and too harsh on Neil, and all I accomplished was making them both angry. All I want is for them both to patch themselves up and move forward. I care about them. I want them well. It doesn't help when I look at my brother and see him hurting my sister emotionally, possibly even sending her back to that dark place she is just now climbing out of. I hardly have a right to criticize anyone's relationship, but it's difficult. I'm caught in the middle. It's a complex situation to find one's way through.