Re: steph b./selina k.
Do you think he's realizing that for himself, or is it what others want him to be? Because, kitten, that's what I see when I look at the baby bird lately. Maybe distance makes it clear, but Dickie wants him to be Robin, and Bruce wants to let him be a Bat, and I brought in the Talons, and Ra's wants him to be an al Ghul, and Helena wants him to be a sister, and Jaybird wants him to be his only tie to the nest. He keeps getting buffeted from every side. He's not you. You decided you didn't want to be a little bat for now, and no one's going to change your mind for you, not unless you decide for yourself. Damian just keeps changing depending on who meows at him.
He avoids me when he thinks I won't like what he's doing.