That's not true and I have a team full of people to attest to that. But if you don't mind me asking, why do you have to believe anything? You're the problem in the equation, not me, not her. It's her choice to make regardless.
I'm trying to prevent the bad things from happening by offering a less bad thing. Is it perfect? No. but asking her to come in instead of letting the people who make more money than me drag her in? I'll take option one.
If you think you can do better be my guest. Let her know. You don't have to believe me at all as a matter of fact. If a guy wants to be on the run, and I fully respect that decision, fine. But be an actual loner instead of fostering relationships with people who don't have to get caught in the crossfire.
But like I said, I don't care if you don't believe me, I don't actually have to explain myself to you, I'm calling you because she asked me to.